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🎵 Upbeat Background Music Playlist

Know modern songs to play during a wedding reception cocktail hour and dinner that will not bore guests (upbeat).

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Matthew Campbell
Oct 11, 2023
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Background music is VERY important to the success of your wedding reception.

The “easy” reception playlist is to play slow romantic love songs as guests arrive until the meal is served.

The “easy” reception playlist is to play jazz favorites during dinner including John Coltrane and Dave Brubeck.

If you follow this plan, you are BORING guests! They WILL leave early from BOREDOM.

Background music sets the tone. First, consider not waiting to have guests dancing until later in the celebration. Why not have dancing while the cocktails are flowing?

Next, if your people want to talk and catch up before dancing begins, consider playing mid-tempo songs that are not party hits but faster than slow dance tracks.

Rather, play songs guests will sing along to, tap their toes to, and groove to while seated.

There are many great mid-tempo hits that set the tone like “Stand By Me” by Otis Redding, “I Want It That Way” by the Backstreet Boys, and “Just The Way You Are” by Bruno Mars.

Thus, challenge yourself to create a background playlist that has your personality but also entertains guests.

Background music playlist challenge:

  • Play a Taylor Swift-themed playlist

  • Play a Disney-inspired playlist

  • EDM/House-inspired playlist

  • Acoustic cover songs of popular hits

  • Yacht rock vibe playlist

  • Create a playlist meaningful to the wedding couple

In order to challenge myself and offer a benefit to you, I created a list below of mid-tempo songs released in 2023 and 2022.

With a mix of R&B, EDM/Dance, Alternative Rock, Pop, Country, and Folk you can satisfy the musical needs of many types of guests (54 songs).

Sample of 5 songs:

  1. Baby Will You Love Me - MAJOR.

  2. Dancin’ In The Moonlight - Chris Lane, Lauren Alaina

  3. Sunshine - The National Parks

  4. Lifetime - SG Lewis

  5. I Like You (A Happier Song) – The Weeknd, Doja Cat

Below is a list of upbeat background songs for setting the right vibes! You can even download the PDF and listen on Spotify!

Cheers,

Matt Campbell

Founder and editor (My Wedding Songs)

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